I don’t share my views with people. I mean I talk a lot (A LOT!), but I never ever give my opinion on something or regarding some event. It’s just that over the time, I have realised that everyone has their own perspective and out of those individuals at least one of them is going to criticize and argue. It doesn’t matter even if I am right. The other person will find a reason to argue to let their point of view known.
I don’t know why people just like to shove their opinions down other people’s throat for no reason. Maybe they feel important by doing so. I guess everybody loves attention in some way or another. Agreeing with them grants them some kind of aura of superiority. Makes them feel special. Fills up that sad hollow cavity in their hearts.
Okay, I don’t mind that you have your own view of life but that doesn’t mean that rest of us are wrong. Try looking at events from other person’s perspective . Everyone has the right to voice their opinion. Most of my friends ask me to speak up, to tell the people what I think. When you think about it….what’s the use? I used to argue a lot in my previous years. I used to argue with all my heart. I used to argue with facts and figures. I was really good at it too, but over the years, I have realised that it’s just a waste of time and energy (and life in some cases). We live in a world where when we voice our opinions, our thoughts, the least that happens to us is that we are ignored like little ignorant brats(which is very annoying in its own way) or at most we get killed because our ideas didn’t agree with the majority of people.
It’s not like that I don’t share my views at all. I share them. I share them with my close friends and family. Even though most of them don’t agree with me, but I have to talk to someone about what’s going on in my mind, right? I think the best way to live our lives is to keep our mouths shut and to keep our noses out of other people’s matter. You are not gonna get rewarded for arguing all the time. Sometimes, it’s best to keep silent and observe the surroundings. I am not enforcing this on anyone. After all that’s just what I think, you don’t have to agree with it.